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šā”šļø #77: Social Fitness, Emotional Fitness, Digital Amnesia & the things we get better at with age
Your midweek pick-me-up of news, inspiration and fresh perspectives to power up your life
Hi, and welcome to issue #77 of The Power Up - your midweek boost to see you through to the weekend.
I turned 44 last Saturday. And although in many ways I still feel as youthful as when I was 21, Iāll readily admit that this was the first time that an age number has really bothered me.
Although I like to believe cliches like āage is just a numberā, Iām starting to realise that there are certain things in my life I will never do now. For instance, Iāll clearly never be a professional athlete, and 44 feels too old to start over in a new career (most careers at least). So I feel a large reduction in the number of possibilities open to me. Limitations Iād never really considered before.
But then I realised that focusing on what I canāt do isnāt a particularly helpful way of thinking. On the whole, my life is good. I have my health, I have friends, and I have a great deal of knowledge and experience that present me with possibilities in the years ahead that arenāt open to everybody.
So thatās how Iām choosing to enter my 45th year - with my eyes open to opportunities, looking for ways to make the very most of the gifts and accumulated experience I do have.
On the subject of which, Iām very open, so if you know me, and have any ideas or suggestions about ways we could collaborate together, then please donāt hesitate to get in touch.
On to this weekās editionā¦ My ageing bag of bones was also encouraged by the first article ā13 peaks we reach at 40 or laterā that outlines all of the many things we actually get better at as we age!
And thereās lots more besides, covering emotional fitness, mental fitness, digital amnesia, and how to draw ideas to name a few.
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Never past your prime: 13 peaks we reach at 40 or later ā from sex to running to self-esteem
Given my above-mentioned birthday news, itās probably no surprise that this article stood out to me this week.
āAgeing doesnāt have to mean slowing down. In fact, youāre more likely to win an ultramarathon in midlife, not to mention get happier, wiser and more body confident,ā it promises.
Read on to find out more things that we actually get better at as we enter our 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond.
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The worldās emotional status is actually pretty good, according to a new global report
Perhaps youāve felt that the world is accelerating into chaos; heard experts warn that AI will lead to human extinction; or thought that even if it doesnāt, our continued failure to adequately deal with climate change will get the job done anyway.
Yet the topline results from a new Gallup report look pretty good. Positive emotions reached a score of 71 out of 100 worldwide, the highest since the pandemic began. And negative emotions dropped for the first time since 2014. Among all age groups, young people were, by far, the best off. They experienced more positive emotions than anyone else and fewer negative ones.
Is your smartphone ruining your memory? A special report on the rise of ādigital amnesiaā
āI canāt remember anythingā is a common complaint these days. But is it because we rely so heavily on our smartphones? And do the endless alerts and distractions stop us forming new memories?
While smartphones can open up whole new vistas of knowledge, they can also drag us away from the present moment, like a beautiful day. When weāre not attending to an experience, we are less likely to recall it properly, and fewer recalled experiences could even limit our capacity to have new ideas and be creative.
The 8 stages of life that make or break you
Erik Erikson, the psychoanalyst who coined the term, āidentity crisis,ā found that humans typically go through eight stages of life.
As we go through each stage, we experience certain challenges and setbacks. If we resolve these challenges in a positive manner, we grow, but if we donāt, we stagnate.
From Trust Vs Mistrust, Autonomy Vs Shame & Doubt, to Intimacy Vs Isolation - read on to learn more about the 8 stages.
The importance of developing and maintaining our social fitness
We intuitively understand what it means to be physically fit: Our cardiovascular system is healthy, our weight is normal, our muscles are toned. Weāre generally sufficiently fit to perform certain athletic activities, like running a certain distance or lifting a certain amount of weight.
Likewise, when weāre socially fit, our relationships are in good shape. We have a sufficient number of ties and a sufficient amount of contact with them. Our relationships are marked more by intimacy and warmth than stress and strain.
This article outlines the importance of social fitness to our overall wellbeing, it shows how we can assess the level of our social fitness, and how cultivating physical and social fitness constitutes both a self-interested exercise and an act of service.
This writer gave himself a month to make one new friend. How hard could that be?
Becoming and staying āsocially fitā can be easier said than done, especially the more we become entrenched in careers and the friendship groups we once had splinter off into relationships, parenthood, or move away.
Find out what this New Yorker learned when they embarked on a month-long quest to make new friends in our modern world.
How to draw ideas
Great ideas are hard to find. Drawing can make it a lot easier. And fun.
Find out the four different roles that drawing can play in the creative and innovation process.
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The 7 traits of emotional fitness in leadership
Clinical psychologist Dr. Emily Anhalt founded the worldās first āgym for the mindā.
In this wide-ranging interview, Dr. Anhalt talks about the concept of emotional fitness, the stigma around mental health, how to build resilience and improve communication, the difference between online and face-to-face mental health support, the power of language, and the unique responsibility leaders have when it comes to taking care of their mental health.
The Changing Mind: A Neuroscientistās guide to ageing well by Daniel LevitinDr Daniel Levitin draws on cutting-edge research from neuroscience and psychology to demonstrate the cognitive benefits of getting older. He challenges the beliefs that surround the ageing process, including our assumptions around memory loss and our focus on lifespan instead of 'healthspan'. |
How to break up with your phone, by Catherine PriceRecent studies have shown that spending extended time on our phones affects our ability to form new memories, think deeply, focus and absorb information. How to Break Up With Your Phone is a smart, practical and useful plan to help you conquer your mobile phone addiction in just 30 days. |
45 Life lessons (at 45 years old)Writer Khe Hy shares his accumulated wisdom. |
Every self-help book ever, boiled down to 11 simple rulesIt's all pretty much the same stuff repackaged in different ways. |
30 journal prompts to nurture self-discovery, creativity, mental fitness, personal growth, and gratitude.Make breakthroughs with just yourself, a pen and some paper. |
The lie of ādeinfluencingāWhy influencers will never influence us to buy less stuff, as itās antithetical to their job. |
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